Janice Dickinson is hitting out at Britney Spears’ mother, Lynne, saying that she should be jailed. She said that Lynne Spears is at the root of all of Britney’s problems and should be “locked up”.
As for Britney, Janice says that she’d slap her silly and hope that she would give it all up to take care of her two sons, Sean Preston and Jayden James. She went on to say that Britney is rich enough and should find an alcoholism or drug program to take care of herself.
Janice also said that she hopes Britney doesn’t do anything stupid like kill herself. We hope not, either, Janice. It would be a terrible tragedy if Britney would end up going the way of Anna Nicole Smith.
Good for Janice calling out that amoral excuse for a mother, Lynn Spears. What I do not agree with though is that Britney needs to be slapped or in any way further abused. J. is theatrical, but a person who may be suicidal does not need to hear ‘they should be slapped’. They are dis-associated from a right relationship with themselves enough at that point that it is life-threatening.
Doesn’t anyone get that? The reason she is with that money- grubbing-hyena Adnan right now is because he put out his hand to her and was kind to her, something any sociopath is smart enough to do because it will work! It is a betrayal bond, of course, but this is an abused girl in the body of a woman, no matter that she biologically pushed out two babies. That says nothing for emotional maturity. She is ripe fruit for sociopaths.
Pychopaths sniff out her vulnerability and go for broke. Just like Mr. Federline did. As is classic in so many domestic abuse situations, Mr. F gaslights and manipulates to his advantage, to create hysteria and make everyone go to lynch the woman. Hold off a minute! What does he have to gain from this, and hasn’t he gotten away with murder already?
Britney does not need to be drugged and further brain damaged. She does not need to be committed to an insane asylum and further abused and violated. She is already a shadow of the star she was. Enough. Being airlifted to someplace far from LA like Switzerland (no mother, no children, no hangers on, no paps) in the care of an empathetic pscyho-analyst – not biopsychiatrist would be my prescription. That, and in this state of safety and relative isolation begin to sort through her psyche.
I would have her eat well, rest, sleep, let the nervous system recover a bit, then for her to write, draw, paint, compose songs whatever creative outlet would allow her to purge the agony of what seems to me like early and repeated sexual abuse – which takes us back to…. her mother.
Was she made ‘available’ to older men as a means to ‘seal the deal’ for the enormous fortune she made that turned mommy into a very rich woman? Her extreme sexual precocity when she hit it big in the early 90′s reflected another sacrificed girl, Jon Benet.
No, Britney does not need to be hurt anymore. She does not deserve to even imagine being slapped by a narcissistic former model with too much plastic surgery willing to jump on her carcass to grab some free publicity for herself. What Britney so obviously longs for, and what she’s never had, is to be known authentically; not as a product of others’ demands and projections and to be loved unconditionally, not for the money she can make someone. Then, perhaps she could learn to love herself.
Only then will she be able to be a mother to her sons one day, certainly not now or in a few weeks, and she doesn’t need to be brain-damaged and psycho-spiritually destroyed for this! She has so much to deal with and come to terms with, perhaps her gifts to her boys will have to come later in their lives as a friend.
For all the women who thinks Britney should be slapped, drugged, electroshocked, lobotomized, locked up, I have this to say. Imagine if it were you and your abusive parents or spouse (or both?) were doing everything in their power to drive you to distraction, label you crazy and destroy you as a human being stripping of you of your autonomy while your psychopathic husband’s mental health is not even questioned. How would you feel? Don’t wish this on Britney. It’s happened to too many women all ready. It happens all the time.